Student Blog: Heart Speaks to Heart

By Isaiah Lamb, Newman Center Student

When I was a kid, I always hated talking on the phone.

I hated it most before I had hit puberty, because my high pitched voice was always mistaken for my mom’s. I would answer the phone and say “hello?” and would nearly always get the response back of “Dianne?”…after which I would sprint to wherever my mom was in an attempt to have her talk to the caller before they ever knew that it wasn’t her that answered the phone.

My aversion to talking on the phone continued well through high school, and even into college. I guess I’m not really sure why. I guess there was just a certain vulnerability there that I didn’t want to have with others. I always resorted to texting because I could think through what I wanted to say…I could appear wise and sufficiently prepared for any conversation that might arise. And furthermore, texting gave me the courage to say nearly anything that needed or that I wanted to be said. I could show my anger or confess my love without much hesitation–things I could have never worked up the fortitude to do in person. And sure, it was pretty “convenient” for me to handle all my relationships with text conversations–to be able to go back and reread messages, or save my favorites– but I think I knew all along that there was something very artificial about it all.

Fast forward to today. I can’t really describe it, but it seems as though time and the Lord’s grace has eroded away much of my desire to hide behind the screen of my smartphone. I long for face-to-face conversations, and love to call people when I have the chance. Even for the simplest of things.

“Cor ad cor loquitur” is a Latin phrase which means Heart speaks to Heart. The origin of this phrase is from St. Francis de Sales, and slightly modified and adopted as the motto of John Henry Cardinal Newman. The phrase also finds its home as the episcopal motto of my current bishop, James Conley, and is emblazoned on a shield at the Newman Center where I spent most of my university career. The more I learn about this simple phrase, the more it seems like God wants me to adopt it and dive deeper into understanding it. And there is so much to learn.

Heart Speaks to Heart.

If I think about this motto while reflecting upon my desire for intentional and intimate relationships, it seems clear to me that our hearts long deepest to be as close as possible to other hearts. Of course our hearts were made for union with God, but that unity is mirrored and paralleled by the attraction of our human hearts to one another.

The reality is that we live in a world that is afraid to be human–to be messy. Even as I write this, I recognize how much I want everything about me and everything about the way I come off to be perfect. Talking face-to-face or even on the phone requires a vulnerability to looking like and sounding like a fool. We might blubber like idiots when we don’t know exactly what to say. There might be that awkward avoidance of eye contact sometimes or the nervous laugh. But there is nothing more real and nothing more fulfilling than these personal, physical encounters. Encounters of the heart.

When we receive the Eucharist, we receive Christ’s heart in such a way that it is as close as is physically possible to our own heart. There is no coincidence in this.

Heart speaks to Heart. Heart longs for heart. Heart rests in heart. But fear attempts to keep our hearts separate–it whispers “this is awkward” or “I don’t have time”… reject these things. (Keeping healthy boundaries of course!)

If we allow our hearts to be drawn to Christ and listen to the language of His heart, the proximity sets our own hearts on fire. How could it not? And as our hearts begin to blaze like His, He calls us into relationship with others and we in turn draw near to their hearts to spread this Divine fire, and thus the whole world burns with infinite power and majesty.

We can’t stifle this fire. We have to open our hearts, even to the point of being wounded. Pray God, that we may have the courage to draw closer to one another and unite our hearts.

Here’s a fun fact: The modern heart shape (the one you think of on valentines) came from the image of two anatomical hearts being stitched together. I thought it was a profound thing.


Day Trip: Exchange Students Visit the Zoo

I am Algarde Habanineza, an exchange student from Rwanda. The past two years, the UNL Newman Center and the community within have had a huge positive impact on not only my spiritual life but also my social life through various events held both on and off campus.

The most amazing part is that within this community we get the opportunity to grow with other brothers and sisters through Jesus Christ and support each other along the way. I have enjoyed being around such nice people who are willing to lift you up during your down moments, as well as join you in celebrating your bright moments.

Earlier in June during our visit to the Omaha zoo, we had a wonderful occasion to reconnect as students and as Christians. I loved it!  Among many other opportunities, such as visiting families around Nebraska, forming a new Newman Center choir, and touring the zoo are activities that bring us together a community and help us love one another like a family.

 Father Mills organized a group trip to the Henry Doorly Zoo in June.

Father Mills organized a group trip to the Henry Doorly Zoo in June.

SNR Article: Newman Institute caps year with pilgrimage

LINCOLN (NI/SNR) - “Faith gives freedom” is the essential lesson Blessed Pier Giorgio Frassati taught his peers and to all who knew him, according to the 91-year-old niece of the dynamic Italian whom St. John Paul II called the “Man of the Eight Beatitudes.”


Wanda Gawronska recently spoke about her famous uncle with students from the Newman Institute for Catholic Thought and Culture who attended this year’s 12-day pilgrimage (May 10-21), which included a papal audience, visits to Rome’s major basilicas and churches, participation in several lectures and talks, a midnight prayer walk to the Shrine of Divina Amore, and a three-hour private tour of the Vatican Observatory given by astrophysicist Father David Brown, S.J.

Gawronska, who hosted 11 Institute students and staff at her Rome apartment, said she frequently cites Pier Giorgio’s conviction, written in a letter from 1923, that freedom was “the most beautiful and best thing that God has given to all men.”

Beatified in 1990, Frassati was known as a layman with a great love of life who shared his vibrant faith with others and gave money to support the poor and suffering of Turin, Italy, before dying at the age of 24. 

“Pier Giorgio is an example of what freedom faith gives to your judgment,” Gawronska said. “The usual thought is that religion – if you believe in something – you become close-minded. It’s exactly the opposite, because faith gives you the freedom of judgment, independence from what’s fashionable or not fashionable. You’re really looking for truth, no? And for Pier Giorgio this is [what’s] notable.”

Dr. John Freeh, director of the Newman Institute, said the visit with Gawronska was one of several opportunities for students to deepen their knowledge of Catholic faith and culture during the pilgrimage, which also included day trips to Assisi and to San Giovanni Rotondo, where St. Pio (Padre Pio) lived and died.

“This was our second annual trip to Italy,” Dr. Freeh said. “Wanda summed up well the reason for our pilgrimage when she described Rome as the heart of the Church and the heart of our culture. It’s a unique opportunity for our students to see those places associated with Christianity and, more importantly, to pray at the tombs of Peter and Paul, Gregory the Great, Monica, Ignatius, John Paul, and so many other heroes and heroines of salvation history.”

In addition to visiting the holy sites of the city, including the catacombs of St. Pancras and the Scavi (excavations) beneath St. Peter’s Basilica, students were treated to a lecture on the papacy of Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI, given by Father Roberto Regoli, who teaches Church history at Rome’s Pontifical Gregorian University.

“Like our Newman Institute classes,” Dr. Freeh said, “this venture, as with our other trips and activities, aims at complementing and underscoring what we read and reflect on in the great books tradition. In Shakespeare’s words, the pilgrimage gives a ‘local habitation and a name’ to the literature we study during the academic year. It’s one thing to read Virgil or Marcus Aurelius or St. Paul, quite another to walk where they walked, see what they saw.”

Sophomore UNL student Maureen Winter agreed: “Everywhere we went, I was overcome by beauty…. And I can’t even begin to describe how close I felt to the saints. I don’t think I’ll ever forget praying at St. Paul Outside the Walls, asking his intercession for all the missionaries I know, for his zeal to come into my actions.”

Newman Institute pilgrims met several times with Lincoln priests and seminarians who work and study in Rome. Msgr. Thomas Fucinaro and Msgr. Richard Gyhra organized a special meal for the group on Pentecost, Father Matthew Rolling celebrated Mass in the crypt of St. Peter’s, at the Chapel of the Patrons of Europe, and seminarians Andrew Schwenka, Joseph Wahlmeier and James O’Neill hosted the group for Sunday Mass and brunch at the North American College.

“Two of the English homilies pointed out our individual vocations,” said UNL pre-nursing student Karissa Dicke. “This was so beautiful. Among the many saints that we often look to imitate, we are reminded that we all have our own path and that we are uniquely called by God. The saints were so incredible, not because they were cookie-cutter, but because they lived out the vocation that God had specially planned for them. We are called to this great sainthood, to live out God’s truth, beauty and goodness, day by day.”

UNL junior Scott Schieuer, who will enter St. Gregory the Great Seminary this fall, said: “When we got to pray before Peter’s bones, [I] recalled His words… : ‘Prophets and kings desired to see what you see, but did not see it, and to hear what you hear, but did not hear it.’ And this really filled me with a spirit of gratitude that informed the entirety of the pilgrimage.”

Freeh said that the Newman Institute will likely organize a return trip to Rome in October to attend the canonization of Pope Paul VI. For 2019, the Institute will organize a mission trip to New Mexico, Freeh said. The May trip will be a two-week walking pilgrimage to Santiago de Compostela, Spain, the burial place of St. James.

The Institute will offer two undergraduate courses in the fall semester: “Introduction to the Great Books I: Seekers, Sojourners and Pilgrims” and “Love and Friendship,” a seminar that will study works by Aristotle, Augustine, Shakespeare and Willa Cather, among others. Undergraduates can earn college credit for the courses through St. Gregory the Great, and then transfer those credits to UNL or other area institutions.

Additionally, the Institute will offer for the first time two evening seminars for non-undergraduates: “Keys to the Kingdom: Seven Encyclicals for the Modern World” and “The Poetry of the Psalms.” More information on courses and other activities, including the fall Reborn in Wonder Lecture series, is available at

See more photos from the Pilgrimage here.
See original article in the Southern Nebraska Register here.

A Lovely Day of Golf

Our 11th annual Golf 'Fore!' the Newman Center Tournament on May 14 was held at the beautiful ArborLinks private golf course in Nebraska City. Bishop Conley, among other dignitaries and friends, enjoyed a relaxing (yet competitive!) day of golf before indulging in a great dinner and learning the outcomes of the online auction items! 

Thanks to our generous sponsors and everyone who joined us, and a special congratulations to our tournament winners!

(left to right) First Place: Shawn Peed, Mitch Helman, Zach Peed, Joe Finegan Second Place: Kelby Meyers, Tyler Denker, Chris Labenz, Matt Clare Third Place: Grant Buckley, Tony Milana, Zach McDermott, Joe Hilger


You Surpassed our G2LD Goal!


On Give to Lincoln Day at exactly 12pm, your donations exceeded our $40,000 goal! Our students are so blessed by your generous support. Thank you!

Now, donations will be stretched even further with a fund through Lincoln Community Foundation. As LCF sorts their stretch donation in the coming weeks, we guess that we will receive about $42,000 in total from the day. Donations to the Newman Center will go to our ministries and operations, which provides funding for the building maintenance and student programs and events. 

On May 31st, donors participated in Give to Lincoln Day 2018 and raised over $4.6 million (a new record!) for Lincoln non-profits. To learn more about Give to Lincoln Day, visit their website.