Canon & Evie: New Year, New Ring

We were coming off another anti-climactic New Year’s Eve and trying to make the best of our winter break before our last semester of college. It seemed like any other January first, but I knew that night held something bigger–something that would change our lives forever.

That evening–just according to plan–we found ourselves in Our Lady’s Chapel at the Newman Center to pray. Well, I tried to pray, but I was mostly thinking about how we had ended up in that moment.

I thought of my first night on campus when Evie and two of our (now) best friends showed up at my dorm room. I hadn’t seen them since our mission trip to Christ in the City the previous summer and was shocked that they found me. They convinced me to go with them to some ‘taco truck’ in the pouring rain. We got soaked, ate really good tacos, and stayed up way too late. At the time, I would have never thought that night would lead to some of the best friendships I would ever have.

Throughout our first semester of college, these friends and I learned so much about ourselves and about our faith. For one, we learned that iron does in fact sharpen iron. We spent almost every night that first semester going to 10pm Mass. We found our home in the Newman Center. Evie was a social chair and the housekeeper for the rectory, I helped with the Legion of Mary and was an acolyte, and our friends served on the executive board.

I don’t say this to show off our involvement, but to point out how much the Newman Center meant to us, and that through giving our time and talents to it, we received so much more. We learned who Jesus is and we learned that our Blessed Mother is always watching over us.

That was the reason I was with Evie in that chapel that day–on the Solemnity of the Blessed Virgin Mary–with those two great friends hiding around the corner. 

After thinking about all of the joys of the past three and a half years, it was time for the surprise. I leaned over to Evie and said “Let’s go over to the nave of the church and see if our friends are over there.” She looked at me confused but said okay. We stood up, approached the Marian altar, and bowed.

After our bow, I turned to Evie and I told her that I loved her and I pulled a ring out of my flannel shirt pocket. I got down on one knee and I asked her to marry me.

With tears in her eyes she squeaked out a “Yes!” I slipped the ring on her finger and gave her a big hug. I was so happy. Then our friends (with cameras) emerged to greet us. It was important to me, and I knew it was important to Evie, that they would be there for that moment. We all hugged and laughed and cried. It was a moment that Evie and I will never forget.

I also only thought it right that Father Matya, our pastor for the last four years, give us a betrothal blessing. I knew that we owed a lot to him and our other priests at the Newman Center. They were always there for us and sacrificed so much to assure the spiritual welfare of all who walk into the Newman Center. They helped us understand that we all have a vocation to which God is calling us– one that we are supposed to live radically!

I know that Evie and I can both say that our time at the Newman Center has had a huge impact on our lives. Without our Catholic faith that was nurtured at the Newman Center, we may have never started a great friendship or started dating, and would not be preparing for our wedding (which will be later this month!).

The Newman Center means the world to us and we believe in what is happening there. We give credit to the Newman Center for finding our vocation, and we know many others who have found their vocations to the married life, priesthood, and religious life through the ministries there, along with a space for prayer and the sacraments. Please keep the Newman Center and the students there in your prayers. And please pray for us as we be prepare to begin this new chapter in our lives!

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Day Trip: Exchange Students Visit the Zoo

I am Algarde Habanineza, an exchange student from Rwanda. The past two years, the UNL Newman Center and the community within have had a huge positive impact on not only my spiritual life but also my social life through various events held both on and off campus.

The most amazing part is that within this community we get the opportunity to grow with other brothers and sisters through Jesus Christ and support each other along the way. I have enjoyed being around such nice people who are willing to lift you up during your down moments, as well as join you in celebrating your bright moments.

Earlier in June during our visit to the Omaha zoo, we had a wonderful occasion to reconnect as students and as Christians. I loved it!  Among many other opportunities, such as visiting families around Nebraska, forming a new Newman Center choir, and touring the zoo are activities that bring us together a community and help us love one another like a family.

Father Mills organized a group trip to the Henry Doorly Zoo in June.

Father Mills organized a group trip to the Henry Doorly Zoo in June.

Go & Make Disciples of All Nations...


Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. - Matt 28:19


Since 2000,

over 130 students

from the UNL Newman Center have said 'yes' to joining FOCUS as a campus missionary.

All over the world, these missionaries are bringing Christ to students at a time in their lives when it's so easy to be lukewarm or leave the Faith. 

Student Stories: Our Lighthouse, by Alli Davis

It was May 2017, the night before the last day of finals, and I was exhausted. My week had consisted of stress, uncertainty, and daily ventures to the empty classrooms at the Newman Center to study harder than I ever had in my life. On this Thursday night, I slammed my computer shut and decided deadlines were stupid. My brain was fried, and my climbing into my bed seemed to be the only possible solution to saving my exams. Like I said, rough week.

But before I could gather my things and head home to the welcome comfort of my twin XL bed, my friend Abbey arrived at the Newman Center with a heavy heart, seeking conversation. All thoughts of my cozy comforter dissipated as I listened intently to her fears of moving back home for the summer and living her faith by herself. I, too, was terrified of the challenges of the upcoming summer– nervous about moving back home, being separated from my best friends, and continuing my faith journey away from the Newman Center. Abbey and I agreed that over the past year, this place had become our rock.

Alli (left) and Abbey

Alli (left) and Abbey

We lived together at our sorority house, and Newman was nothing more than a hop, skip, and a jump down the street. During Lent last spring, both Abbey and I had committed to making morning visits to start our days. At first those mornings were really hard for me, but the more time I spent with Jesus in the beautiful silence, the more excited I was to go to bed at night just so I could wake up early and do it all again. Those forty days were the best Lent of my life.

I was finally given a taste of what a real relationship with Jesus looks like. It was raw, it was vulnerable, and it was perfectly imperfect.

Abbey and I finally decided that the best thing we could do for ourselves on that overwhelming night was give the rest of our worries to God and just go to sleep. The door to the chapel was on our way out, so we stepped in to say goodnight and beg for any last-minute graces that might save us. As we walked in, the church was absolutely silent, but not five minutes later our dear Father Mills appeared, making his evening rounds of turning out the lights and locking the doors. Usually he would have asked us to head home, but we probably looked pretty pathetic, so he just smiled and told us to lock the door on our way out. An incredible feeling washed over me as the last of the lamps clicked off. We sat in this incredible darkness, a fresh energy washing over me as I gazed at the massive stained glass window of Jesus on His heavenly throne surrounded by some of His very best friends: the saints.


Abbey and I didn’t sit in a pew, we collapsed on the floor right in front of the altar, closer than most people dare to venture. And then we sang. We sang the songs our hearts had been longing to let out, the joys of that semester, the stress of that week, and the fear of losing it all over the summer. We stayed until 3am listening to the sounds of our own voices ring through the high, arched ceilings of the empty chapel. When we finally decided it was time to leave, we were full. No more fear, no more stress, just full.

I had never felt so at peace.

When I think of what the Newman Center means to me, I think of that night. It makes me smile when I contemplate the way Jesus worked in my heart. The peace didn’t end after that night, either. This summer has been full of trial and growth, questions and even a few answers. Living at home, my relationship with my parents has become stronger than I could have hoped, and my siblings and I have discovered a new friendship with each other. Although I so anticipate returning to the Newman Center, these last few months of summer have been amazing.

I had gone to Catholic school my entire life, and a part of me thought that was enough. My parents paid for me to learn about the Catholic faith, and I thought it ended there. I went on every school retreat and paid attention in religion class. But a few months after returning from the SEEK 2017 Conference last January, I realized I can’t rely on those things to sustain my faith. I went to that conference hoping I would hear the thundering voice of God that would change my heart, but instead I got silence. I had never felt more blocked from God than I did the night of Adoration when everyone around me seemed to feel His Presence. I was jealous, I was angry, and I was confused. However, Jesus had a plan for me the whole time. He knew that my heart wouldn’t be changed in an instantaneous encounter, and so he showed me that I must learn to seek Him daily. That’s how He worked in me, starting with that Lent, long after my friends and I returned home from SEEK.


I would not be where I am without the Newman Center. It’s the place I can come in the morning before the rest of campus has woken up, where I can go to Mass at 10pm because Father Matya and Father Mills understand just what it’s like to be a busy college kid, and where I can plop down in front of the altar with my best friend, singing my heart out until three in the morning.

The Newman Center is my home, my rock. With its shining bell tower constantly watching over the whole of campus, it is our lighthouse.

God bless, Alli

Alli Davis is a sophomore from Lincoln studying Journalism and Advertising/Public Relations.

Each day, hundreds of students like Alli are welcomed into our supportive, Christ-filled Newman Center. However, our ministries are only possible through the generosity of people like you. Please prayerfully consider being part of the mission to bring Christ to each of us by giving online here. Select "Mail Appeal" under, "What prompted you to give today?"

FOCUS Greek: Kayla Found Her "Home" During College


We often hear students say that they feel “at home” at the Newman Center. What an amazing feeling for students that have traveled across town, state lines or even the ocean to be at UNL. We are a big family here, providing academic, emotional and spiritual support for one another on a daily basis. Beyond that, the Newman Center provides opportunities to be part of smaller specific-interest communities like FOCUS’s Varsity Catholic, a student athlete outreach; Daughters of Mary, a women’s outreach focused on forming relationships with the Virgin Mother; and the Pray for Babies group, a pro-life outreach.

Among these, FOCUS Greek holds its place under the national organization FOCUS (Fellowship of Catholic University Students) and is aimed at offering spiritual growth opportunities for Greek students on campus. This fall, so many students were attending the weekly meetings that gathering at a Greek house was no longer an option. The group began meeting in the Newman Center’s backyard and have since moved to the parish hall. We are so glad to be able to accommodate the hundreds of Greek students that attend!

Fourteen students and FOCUS missionaries serve as executive officers who plan and execute all of the events. Besides the occasional socials (the group’s most recent event was an Advent party at a local coffee shop), the events usually consist of a talk followed by small group discussion and Q&A session. The speakers range from priests to students to alumni on topics ranging from prayer to alcohol to dating.

Here is a word from one of our officers, senior speech pathology major Kayla West.

“I have been involved at the Newman Center since my freshman year but not seriously involved until halfway through my sophomore year. It seems like I’ve been attending FOCUS Greek for as long as I can remember! I am just finishing up my year-long term serving as secretary on the FOCUS Greek exec team.

During my time on exec, we really tried to foster the community aspect of our group because it’s those bonds and personal encounters that really make the biggest difference (I can say that from experience!). Throughout my time at UNL, it has been so encouraging to be able to walk into a room every week and know that each person there is not only a fellow college student striving for Christ, but a fellow college student striving for Christ who is also part of the Greek system and knows the specific benefits and trials of that culture on campus. I think that’s important for every student who attends our events- just knowing they’re not alone.

In addition to our community, we have great events. We pick people who speak on subjects that are important and relevant to Greek college students trying to live a Catholic life. I can honestly say talks at FOCUS Greek have changed my life. Fr. Mills’ talks have helped me come to a deeper understanding of the Mass and get more out of it. Chas Bogatz, a fellow student, gave a talk that helped me gain a new respect for the Sabbath (it is now my favorite day of the week!). Mission trip testimonies from fellow students encouraged me to go on a mission trip that was one of the best experiences of my life. I could keep going, but I think I’ve made my point!

One of the coolest parts of my time on exec was this semester when we had a student and a recent UNL alumnus approach us on separate occasions, each asking to speak on a topic they were passionate about. How amazing is it that we are given this platform where students can take that initiative to literally stand up and witness to Christ and where we, in turn, can learn the Gospel from our peers? It’s incredible. I am so encouraged by our student speakers, and their example has inspired me not to be afraid of sharing the faith with my peers. I hope that these are all things that every student who attends FOCUS Greek takes away- knowing they’re not alone, learning something new, and being emboldened to be lights for Christ on our campus.”